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Worst Period Story: It was so bad the doctors gave me MORPHINE!

This is a true story of endometriosis and contains details that may not be suitable for younger readers.

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Jenni Rempel writes:

I was at home when my period started and right away I headed to the bathroom. I had horrible cramps and really had to go to the bathroom, but each time I tried I was just left feeling constipated. I was in so much pain I couldn’t see straight. I laid down on the bathroom rug and closed my eyes.

When I work up I had leaked all over the rug and left a big red stain. I was so bloated and had so much abdominal pain that it hurt even to wear underwear. I felt like there was nothing I could do! I asked my boyfriend to call the ambulance.

I was in so much pain I had to go to the ER.

At the ER is was a busy day and the chair I had to sit in was broken. It hurt too much to sit down so I laid on the floor. Then I threw up right there in the middle of the hallway.

I have always been really scared of needles and hadn’t even had a blood test in several years. On this day I was in so much pain that I was hurting too much to be scared. I let them do a blood test and then they put an IV in and gave me antibiotics for a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) before giving me a full course of morphine for the pain. I finally started to feel a bit better so they said I could go home but I had to come back for a week of IV antibiotics to treat this UTI.

I thought my Mom would understand and come help me but she said I should suck it up and refused to come get me from the hospital. Finally she agreed to come pick me up but she was very angry at me for making such a big deal out of my period. When we got home my Mom yelled at my for leaving a period stain on the bathroom rug. So ontop of being so physically sick I also felt very sad that my Mom was being so mean.

Even though my Mom didn’t understand, I am now more informed about period pain and women’s health. I later found out that the cause of my pain and problems was not a UTI but was Endometriosis, a chronic disease.

Period pain and problems are nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of and if you or someone you know had painful periods that interfere with their daily life it may be a sign of a medical problem or condition. I hope no one else has to have an experience like mine, worst period ever!

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My Period Diary: What it’s like to have a period & things that always happen when I get my period

I’ve been meaning to do this blog post for a very long time but just haven’t gotten around to it. Usually my period diaries are very short, uneventful, and impersonal which I don’t really like. I used to do a lot of personal blogging and hope to do a lot more of that now. I want to share more of my personal period experiences with my readers so everyone knows what periods are REALLY like.

I started my period when I was 12 and getting my period in my preteens/teens to now in my twenties has been a very very different experience.

My period during my TEENS
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In my preteens/teens – there was a lot of guess work because back then, there wasn’t that much information on the internet.. because the internet was fairly new back then LOL. So we relied on pamphlets and books etc but even then every girl’s period experience is unique so I was just learning more and more about how my body worked with each period.

I used to worry A LOT about my period. Like most girls I was worried about stains from leaking, not having a pad with me, or OMG how will I do the campus run when I have my period and all these crazy cramps?? This pad is so thick – will other girls be able to see it through my pants? Or omg my pad is SO loud when I open it – that it ECHOS in the girls bathroom LOL!

My period during my TWENTIES

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Now that I’m in my twenties – I still worry about stains and whether or not I have supplies with me (I am bad at planning LOL) but I no longer count the days of my period or worry about my pad being too thick! I don’t even care if someone hears me opening my pad in the bathroom!

Over the years I’ve gotten very familiar with my body. I know when my period will come without counting the days and instead I rely on just how my body is feeling and what it’s telling me.

Also if you’ve been following this blog for a while – you know that I have a copper IUD. One of the side effects is that it can make your cramps worse which really worried me because my cramps used to be pretty bad. Fortunately I am one of the lucky ones because my cramps went from very painful to little to no pain at all.

Anyways even though my experience with my period has changed a lot over the years, that have been consistent over the last few years…

Things that ALWAYS happen during my period
1. Period Poops

Ughhh yup – IT HAPPENS. And it’s best summed up in this picture:


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But why does this happen to so many girls?
My guess is that while your body is producing oxytocin (the chemical that makes your uterus contract to push out your period) and trying to send it to your uterus – some of it gets sent to your lower abdomen area hence the cramps in your lower back and inner thighs. In the mix of all that, some of the oxytocin is ends up in the digestive tract area.

All the contracting and cramping also affects the surrounding muscles and makes your digestive tract just contract in ways that it normally wouldn’t which results in constipation or diarrhea. This is MY GUESS so if anyone actually knows if this is fact or untrue – PLEASE leave a comment and let me know!!

2. Cramps

I don’t get super crazy cramps anymore but I get a really warm fuzzy feeling in my uterus.

When I put my hand over my lower tummy area, it feels super warm and it just feels like something is going on in there! Every now and then I do feel sharp cramps but they don’t last very long for me – only a minute or two.

It sounds weird to say but I actually like this warm fuzzy feeling because it makes me feel womanly (maybe this is a weird way to put it but let me explain).

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Sometimes my cramps have me feeling like this LOL.

It feels endearing to for my body go through this process because I know that my body is working in the way that it’s supposed to, that my body is running normally as it should, and that I’m healthy which I’m really grateful for.

3. Hot flashes

This. THIS I HATE! Because in my teen years, I never really experienced hot flashes. It was only in my early twenties that I started to develop this symptom!

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I almost always get it sometime either before, during, and after my period. I think my body is just working over time and this is just a side effect.

One minute it is very warm – like I am on the verge of breaking out in a sweat! – and the next minute I need to put on a sweater and turn up the heat… and the next minute I am too warm again! This happens for like a good hour or so -___-. And it’s not just all in my head either because my boyfriend held me during a hot flash and noticed how warm my body felt.

It is really just an inconvenience and I can still laugh about it. My only worry is that I wear a nice warm sweater to work where I am in a client facing role and can’t take it off every couple minutes LOL.

4. Sensitive Boobs

As I entered my twenties I noticed that as my period was nearing, my boobs would always become a bit swollen and sensitive. This has always been my sign that my period will be coming in the next few days.

This is when I should be stocking up on pantyliners, pads, and tampons but to be honest I still forget sometimes! LOL I guess with being so comfortable about periods, I don’t see any inconvenience in asking another girl for supplies haha!

5. Getting SUPER tired & Falling asleep INSTANTLY

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Sometimes I will just get SUPER tired during my period. I can literally just fall asleep on the spot which I have done countless times. I have done this during a lecture, at work, and I’ve even had to delay my bus ride home so I could take a nap at my school library.

First I feel unwell, like all the energy is just being drained from my body. I think this is because my body is working extra hard to push out my period. Then I just fall asleep.

When this first started happening to me, it was a bit scary cause I didn’t know if I would be okay because I never experienced this in my early teens. It wasn’t until my early twenties that I started feeling so tired and sleepy. It’s not scary to me anymore because I know that I will be okay after napping for an hour or so but my boyfriend saids it’s scary to see me go through that.

Now that I am more familiar with this, I make extra care to take care of myself during my period. I eat super healthy to ensure my body is getting all the nutrients it needs because during your period – you are essentially losing a lot of nutrients especially iron through your period / blood loss.

I have never met anyone else that experiences this so if you experience this too, please let me know in the comments!!

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Funny Period Story: My boyfriend mixed up pads with diapers!

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Lily writes:

So one day I got my period and I totally wasn’t ready for it. I was wearing thin white shorts that day and didn’t have a pad on me.

I was on my boyfriends lap at the park. We were laughing and he started to tickle me! Whenever I laugh I pee a little…

And I started laughing so hard that I couldnt’ stop peeing!

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Blood started to come out too and that’s when I found out I was on my period!

I start to cry but my boy friend says it’s ok! We run to his car and he drives us to the store – he runs inside and guess what he buys me???

My boyfriend bought me DIAPERS!

I started crying even more and tell him I need pads! Not diapers! He thought the diapers looked like pads so that’s why he bought them. He threw the diapers in the car and ran back into the store to buy pads.

This time he bought me EXTRA THICK pads

I started to cry even harder because my period was leaking through my white thin shorts faster and faster… so I put on the diaper and pad… then my boyfriend took me home to his house and I feel asleep.

I woke and I had a different pad on and some boxer shorts and his sweat pants.. Worst day of my life!

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Worst Period Story: I leaked at a celebrity party!

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Jenni Rempel writes:

I had just had the worst period ever but figured it was just a fluke incident.

I was scheduled to volunteer at this fancy fundraiser party at this vacation destination. The party was a 3 hours drive away and I had been assigned to go with this guy I had never met before.

There were going to be celebrities there and I was supposed to take photos so I was pretty excited.

Just my luck, I woke up the morning of the party with my period.

Right away I started to have very painful cramps and felt nauseous. I tried to breathe deeply and took some over-the-counter pain medication on the drive over.

pristine-bathroomAfter sitting in the car for 3 hours we reached the location of the party. I stood up and felt this huge gush as all the flow from the 3 hour car ride was pulled down by gravity. I immediately went to the bathroom to change my pad and tampon.

The bathroom was all white! The towels were white, the toilet was white, everything was white, and very very clean.

I felt so embarrassed to be dumping all of this menstrual blood in this oddly pristine washroom.

As the party started I continued to feel sicker and more nauseous. I started to get weak in the knees. I went back to the bathroom and this time was in so much pain I actually passed out on the floor.

Someone eventually knocked on the door loudly and I woke up to discover there was a long line of people waiting to use the washroom. I had also leaked through my fancy dress onto the white floor of this white coloured washroom.

I was mortified! I wiped it up and put a sweater around my waist to hide any stains on my dress. And everyone I knew at the party was a guy so I didn’t even have any other girls to help me out.

I tried to avoid all of the celebrities because I didn’t want them to see anything embarrassing. And then after all that I had to take another 3 hour drive home with this guy I didn’t know very well. Worst period ever!

I keep having painful periods like this and was eventually diagnosed with Endometriosis (link to: http://www.theperiodblog.com/guide-to-periods/endometriosis-everything-you-need-to-know/), a painful chronic disease.

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Worst Period Story: I had to go to the hospital!

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Jenni Rempel writes:

I was 21 and had just moved to NYC to do a summer internship. I was living in an intern apartment with my first-ever roommate and was a little embarrassed about having my period around someone I didn’t know well.

I had bought a Diva Cup to use during my trip but had never tried it before. So my period started and I went to try the Diva Cup for the first time, but I couldn’t get it in right! I tried about 5 times until it finally stayed but it didn’t feel like it was inserted correctly.

My roommate and I had to run off to an event we were volunteering at so I figured it was good enough and decided to just leave.

Once we got on the subway I started to feel really bad cramps and got very woozy. Then I started to get a fever and needed to lie down. By the time we reached our stop I couldn’t stand anymore and needed to go to the bathroom, badly. I was feeling really bad so I parted ways with my roommate and switched trains to go home.

I even laid down on the subway bench (luckily it was a Sunday morning and the train wasn’t crowded) on the way back. When I got back to the stop near my house I was so weak I could barely move. I had to crawl up the stairs to the subway exit.

I hobbled into the first place I saw, which was an IHOP restaurant, and asked to use the bathroom. At first they wouldn’t let me because I had to buy something in order to use the washroom. I was so woozy and in so much pain I couldn’t think straight and collapsed on the waiting bench.

I finally asked for a bottle of water, gave her $20 and was allowed to go to the washroom. I tried to go to the bathroom but I was very constipated.

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It took me about 10 minutes to get the Diva Cup out and it was almost full of blood when I removed it. I had never had a very heavy period before so I was pretty surprised and concerned to see this.

Even after I took the cup out and tried to use the washroom I was still in so much pain which continued to get worse.

Because I was new in the city I didn’t really know anybody to ask for help, but I knew I was too sick to climb the stairs to my apartment or walk home. The hostess came into the washroom to check on me and I asked her to call an ambulance.

As the paramedics took me away the hostess gave me my bottle of water and change. She really wanted me to buy something!

I ended up taking an ambulance to the hospital where I was diagnosed with “unidentified gastritis”.

Afterwards I keep having painful periods like this and was eventually diagnosed with Endometriosis a painful chronic disease. Talk about the worst period ever!

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Funny Period Story: That time I wore WHITE pants

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When you wear your cute white pants and your period comes…

Backpack Blues writes:

I was at school and it was my last class for the day. Some girlfriends and I were talking about periods and I said,

“I am seriously praying I don’t get my period today because I’m wearing white pants!”

10 minutes later the bell rang. I got up and felt something and for sure I was wet!

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I was hoping it was discharge or something but not my period, please not blood… RED blood.

I get out of class and try to walk quickly to the band hall. Well the band hall is on the other end of school and where my mom picks me up.

I’m trying to hide my butt with my backpack from the people behind me. I get to the band hall and run to the restroom. Looks like Jesus couldn’t save me. I wrapped up some toilet paper put it on my underwear and called my mom.

Luckily, I only had a small dot of red on my pants. I ran outside and couldn’t be happier to see my car!

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My First Period Story: It came during Church!

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Church girl, 11 (Jamaica) writes:

Well mine started at church last year August 24. It was during service when I felt something wet down there. I also needed to go pee but the service was awesome so I waited until it was finished.

When I got to the restroom and pulled down my underwear, something red caught my eye. I was shocked and thought I deficated on my underwear! I sat there thinking what it could be so I smelled it and OMG it was blood!

I called my girl cousin who is 14 and started her period three years earlier. She told me to go home which is right next door to the church.

I wanted to tell my mom but I was too shy to say the word “period” to my mom so my cousin told her for me. Since I started puberty at 6 years old, my mom and I have developed a good relationship so I could tell her anything. My mom had already given me the talk because I was maturing so fast. At 10, I was already developing the breasts of girls in 9th grade. It felt really weird.

My cousin gave me a pad but I didn’t know how to put it on so my mom helped me put it on my underwear. My mom also gave my cousin and I the period talk – what you can and can’t do during your period.

Later that night every female in my house knew I had started my period. They shared that they all started their period at 11 or 12 so I though to myself: How could I start in 4th grade?!

I wanted to tell my best friend about my period but my mom said it was a bad idea because my she was afraid my friend would tell everyone!

Well guess what! It turns out my best friend also started the same time as I did!!

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Mother’s Day Period Stories: It ran down my leg and my mom helped me cover up!

This Mother’s Day we asked our readers to send in their most memorable period stories with their mom. Here are our top 5 stories!

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Period Story #1 : It ran down my leg and my mom helped me cover up!
Becca writes:

We were on the way back from a family holiday to France, during which I had broken my leg. I was wearing a pair of denim shorts as it was very hot and they were the only thing that fit over my massive white plaster cast (which went from my toes all the way up to my hip).

On the day of our one-hour plane ride back home, I was on day 1 of my period. And although it was only day 1, I decided to wear a night pad, which I changed just before getting on the plane as my periods are usually quite heavy.

When we arrived back in England we had to wait for everyone else to get off of the plane before us because of my leg.

So when I eventually I stood up – MY PERIOD JUST FLOODED.

It went on the plane seat, my leg my shorts, everywhere. I was hoping to get away with it since I was wearing dark denim shorts.

My little sister sat down on my seat after I got up but when she stood up and saw the blood, she started screaming and crying thinking that she cut her leg!

By this point, blood was actually running down my leg and my Mum clicked on what had happened. She said to my sister, ‘No love, it’s not you that’s cut yourself its your big sister’.

But my sister had made such a fuss that the plane staff had come over and they were like ‘Oh no, how did you cut yourself and where?’ etc, and they kept going on and on about it, even saying that they could go and get me a plaster. It went a bit far when this random man offered to call an ambulance so that I could go and get stitches! Lol!

Looking back it was hilarious but at the time I was absolutely mortified!

…blood was dripping everywhere, running down my leg, all over the floor, and even on my mum’s shoes!

An airport man offered to carry me to the lift off the plane, I was like ‘No thanks, I’m okay’.

I stood on the bus ride back to the airport and blood was still dripping everywhere, running down my leg, all over the floor, and even on my mum’s shoes!

My Mum was standing behind me so that no one on the bus would see and kept saying ‘Don’t worry we’ll get it sorted soon’ and wiping the blood off her converse with a tissue.

Oh yeah, and the blood was also running right down my WHITE plaster cast.

Meanwhile my poor Dad didn’t even click what was going on and said to my mum ‘Mary, do you think its the cast that’s cut her leg? Maybe she does need stitches!’.

When we eventually got to the airport there was a guy with a wheelchair waiting for me and I felt so bad because I left a big bloodstain on the seat in the plane, bus and wheelchair!! Yuck! Horrendous day! Plus we had to use white paint to cover the bloodstains on my cast!

Thanks for being there for me when I needed you most Mom!!! You’re the best!!! Happy Mother’s Day!

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Mother’s Day Period Stories: I leaked all over my WHITE skirt

This Mother’s Day we asked our readers to send in their most memorable period stories with their mom. Here are our top 5 stories!

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Period Story #2 : I leaked all over my WHITE skirt
Alaina writes:

So we have sports at school every Wednesday and I was on my period. It was really heavy but I guessed I would manage.

But by the third period, I leaked all over my white skirt! It was summer so no jackets. I panicked and a friend of mine called my mum and told her to bring me some new clothes. And what does my mom bring me? ANOTHER SKIRT. No t-shirt, nothing.

I wore my skirt, which was black btw, with my white jersey and sport shoes. Honestly I looked like a stupid zebra running through school. There were my guy friends who threw some ‘We understand but its still amusing’ looks. And my male teachers looked at me ridiculous too!

So embarrassing. Hope I never have to go through something like that again.

Oh well, thanks for the skirt Mom!

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Mother’s Day Period Stories: She taught me everything I know about periods

This Mother’s Day we asked our readers to send in their most memorable period stories with their mom. Here are our top 5 stories!

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Period Story #3 : My mom taught me everything I know about periods
Lyha writes:

It was the day before my family’s big trip and some friends and I decided to go to the beach. It was basically my idea so everyone met at my house.

The day before I had been noticing some brown stains in my underwear. I thought I pooped myself but it had no smell. Weird I thought… Anyways I didn’t really think much of it.

All my friends, both boys and girls (but mostly boys), were there and we were just about ready to leave when I felt something warm crawling down my leg. I’ve never felt it before. I excused myself from a conversation I was having with a boy and went to the bathroom.
There it was, a bright red stain on my underwear!!!

There it was, a bright red stain on my underwear. I figured it couldn’t have been that bad since it was just a spot. But it didn’t take long before I started to bleed heavily.

I yelled for my mom to come and help me. Thankfully this happened at my house so she was able to help me. She gave me and overnight ultra thin pad to wear.

She explained to me that periods are normal and that I shouldn’t be embarrassed about it but I was still crying. She even showed me how to put on a pad and afterwards I left the bathroom with my cheeks tear stained.

The boy I was talking to asked what was wrong with me, but of course I said nothing. The good thing is, I still swam at the beach and had a great time. It turned out one of my friends had her first period on that very same day as well!

Thank you mom for teaching me about my period!

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